Day 45 of quarantine:
I can’t believe I haven’t journaled until now. You’d think, what with all this free time at home, I’d have nothing but time to journal about the very interesting and eventful…events that happen in quarantine. You know at the start of all this madness I even thought to myself… “I should journal about this. Maybe one day someone will read my journal like Anne Frank or something.” But that is not the best analogy…
And so did I use all this sudden and available time to document the secret and intriguing life of someone in quarantine? No. You know it’s even strange to read the word on paper. Quarantine. It almost makes it feel more real. Tangible. Idk.
I suppose to be honest, which I try to be, especially in my own private journal, that that is exactly why I haven’t written. Wait…why? Because at times it hasn’t felt real. And at times I wish it wasn’t. I admit that I am speaking from a position of privilege. That were my circumstances different, I wouldn’t question if this is real or not. It would undoubtedly, unmistakably be absolutely and most certainly real. Minus all the ruffles and frills. And fear wouldn’t be my only reminder. No. The pang of hunger. The worry in my children’s eyes. The sound of my mother’s quivering voice as she begs the Lord for mercy on her family and her country. They would be my daily reminders of this catastrophe. Though the most catastrophic thing to have happened in my life is having to write this with a medium point pen because I can’t just run to the store for a fine point. I say that mostly jokingly, but somewhat seriously. Sure it hasn’t been an easy ride.
Have I encountered loneliness, fear and worry whilst in self-isolation? Yes. But I can say with certainty that many would quickly trade places. Being in isolation, or better worded, in quarantine with seven other family members in Orange County, California hasn’t been all that bad.
On Fridays, we get fresh, organic produce delivered to our door. The other day, actually, I caught the driver proudly blast Lady Marmalade before making a quick getaway to his next stop, another privileged middle-class family most likely.
(On Mondays, I sleep in, and then panic.)
On Thursdays, I deliver meals to the seniors from my church. I’m sort of in charge of the whole operation. To be honest, which again…my journal…when I volunteered to pick up groceries for seniors, I didn’t know how much work I’d be getting myself into. Selfishly so, so that you realize I’m not bragging, I thought it wouldn’t be that much work. Or rather, once things started rolling, I didn’t realize it would be as much work as it was. I’m rambling now. Point is, it wasn’t what I “signed up for”. And I’m the one that signed myself up. Am I complaining? No. Actually, the whole thing has blessed me (as the senior ladies of my church would say) more than I expected. 45 some odd days ago, I didn’t realize just how much joy driving my own car, blasting Mt. Joy with the windows down, delivering meals to seniors on a Thursday would bring me. Even on that really hot Thursday when I was sweating through my mask, I was blessed more than I blessed others. I could say something sappy like…
The smile on Judy’s face when she saw me (from a safe 6ft distance) outside her door is what made all the difference. And it was. It did. But also, experiencing freedom. The kind of freedom that we often take for granted. The freedom to walk outside the door, meet a friend for coffee, get lunch with a coworker, high five your students, hug your mother, even go to the grocery store. Experiencing freedom.
A freedom I felt, I have lost. Albeit temporarily. It is a loss that does not go unnoticed. It is a loss that is deeply felt. And I suppose, in that way, this catastrophic event has unified us. For those of us who were born into the riches of freedom, now we know, even if just a sliver, of what it is to be without freedom. For we, as a privileged society, I as a privileged individual, may have lost it temporarily, but some were born without it. Born into a culture, a household, a body that is stripped of freedom. The freedom to live and love and be freely, beyond the interior, outside of four walls; to pursue a career, to go to school, to meet in a church, to marry for love, to have cereal or eggs. Many are not born with these freedoms. Many, in fact, will never know them. Many will only dream of them.
My one prayer is, that when we finally come out on the other side, when we finally see the day after this long night, that we would not rush off to meet in coffee shops and flood the beaches and laugh at the worst of it being over, but that we would sit down, and remember those who were lost, those who we failed to protect and those who we still can. For even when things go back to “normal” or rather to some semblance of it, when the clocks go back to ticking without anyone noticing, when the school bells ring and the waitress punches in for work, there will still be fear and great loneliness. Worry will not escaped this earth. But if we can learn to get really still and quiet, to hold one another and to listen, I think the earth would let out a great sigh. And as cheesy as it may sound, I think some big old guy, with greying hair, up in heaven would be smiling down.